Judgemental or Not 

​Are we judgmental ? 

Yes, we all are.

 Why do we judge ?

People who claim that they don’t judge are people who don’t know what they are talking about. Either they are unaware of their subconscious judgement or they are just lying.

We judge everything. Our minds are programmed in such a way that we analyse and judge things. The moment you wake up to the noise of a loud speaker sound, to the irritated look at the guy who speeds in his noisy bike, one way or the other we are judgemental.

What really matters is we all should know we do not judge anyone unless it’s affecting others. The moment our space gets intruded or the peace of our mind gets disturbed we start judging and that’s not a bad thing. 

When we see a man getting hit by a speeding vehicle ( hit and run) or a child being abused in public by a parent or someone or when a poor man is insulted by the rich or when a women is about to be raped. Some of us would rush to help them forgetting where we are. That’s humanity and it comes as a result of being judgemental. 

My point is being judgemental is not so bad as it’s one of the human natures influenced by external factors. Though it’s the latest trend to pretend to be non judgemental, being judgemental for the right reasons is a must 

Valentine’s day 

​Over the past few years the atrocities of the fundamentalists doing the job of moral police has increased considerably. 

Many fundamentalists are against Valentine’s day. They are against love and love marriages. They say it’s against their culture.
If you look closely you will understand, they are against women and their freedom. It’s not just because Valentine’s day is just against the culture, it’s about a matter of religion, gender and caste supremacy. The fundamentalists of every religion behave in one pattern united together opposing Valentine’s day and acting like a moral police.
If you don’t like Valentine’s day, don’t celebrate Valentine’s day. If you don’t like love then don’t fall in love. It’s a free world. Let people decide what they want to celebrate.
Stop imposing your thoughts on others and stop expecting people to act the way you want them to.

Happy Valentine’s day

My Goddess

​People are different.

Everyone is unique.
that’s what we all have been hearing over and over but if you look down deep inside, you will see a similar pattern in their behavior. All you would see is same mediocre personality wearing different masks.
I’m sure we all have fallen in love at least once in our lifetime. I have been through one and thought it’s just the chemical reactions in our brain, the dopamine effect and nothing more, until the day I met her. 
She isn’t just an ordinary person. She’s magic. The power in her eyes, the spell she casts upon me can never matched by any mortal. She’s the one who showed me love is much more than hormonal reactions, it’s a connection, a soul connection, the meeting of hearts.

She showed me it’s possible to be comfortable in your own skin not wearing masks and yet be loved for who you are. One thing I can be sure of, she’s not a normal human being.
She’s an angel.

She’s my goddess.


​Have you ever felt an instant connection, a bond, the moment you start talking to them for the first time?

An unquenchable thirst to know them completely?

Have you ever experienced the addictive nature of drugs in the form of people ?

Have you ever found someone who would give you a feel that is beyond any mortal comprehension ?

Have you ever been overwhelmed by magic that you just prefer reality over dreams?

Not many days ago I came across a person I have developed a huge liking for. A person who I have felt a connection, I have never experienced with anyone before. A stranger who made me feel at home. Someone in whom I saw myself. Someone with whom too many things are in common. The first person I felt comfortable sharing my weirdest dreams. It’s in her I experienced overwhelming magic for the first time. I made her a priority. I am trying to make her feel special because she is. I am someone who believes relationships are not about how long we have known each other but what we feel for the other.

Depth in her thoughts,

Purity in her soul,

Kindness in her heart,

Elegance in her walk,

Devotion in her passion;

She’s beauty in herself and 

Everything about her is beautiful.

Marriage of true minds 

Let me not to the marriage of true minds 

Admit impediments. Love is not love 

Which alters when it alteration finds, 

Or bends with the remover to remove. 

O no! it is an ever-fixed mark 

That looks on tempests and is never shaken; 

It is the star to every wand’ring bark, 

Whose worth’s unknown, although his height be taken. 

Love’s not Time’s fool, though rosy lips and cheeks 

Within his bending sickle’s compass come; 

Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks, 

But bears it out even to the edge of doom. 

If this be error and upon me prov’d, 

I never writ, nor no man ever lov’d.